Brain Studies: Limiting Screen Time (Internet, TV, Games) Crucial for Reading, Health, Learning.

Brain Studies, from The Pediatric Partners, P. A.

There is no Substitute for Reading or Listening to a Book with your children.

Two Students Not Reading Core Knowledge Books

Despite advertising describing how babies can learn to read by watching certain DVDs or kids can learn to read with computer software, research shows that this is not an effective means of promoting language development, and might be detrimental. These “educational” DVDs and computer software have the following problems:

  • When parents and kids interact with electronic console books, parents are less likely to use the kind of verbal interactions that promote literacy. They tend to talk more about behavior (“can you click on this?”) and less about responding to content (“what is the boy going to do next?”)
  • When children read from electronic console books, they spend more time pushing buttons than reading the story, which results in poorer character identification, less story comprehension, and more impoverished parent-child interaction than reading from traditional books.

Limiting Total Screen Time (Internet, TV, Video Games) is Crucial.

  • Before age 3… the amount of TV viewing before age 3 has been associated with new yorker Kill Your TV coverproblems in reading recognition, reading comprehension, and being able to remember sequences at age 6.
  • Children… who spend less time watching TV in early years tend to do better in school, have a healthier diet, be more physically active, and be better able to engage in schoolwork in later elementary school.
  • Teens… who watch 3 or more hours of TV daily are at especially high risk for poor homework completion, negative attitudes about school, poor grades, and academic failure.
  • Boys… who spend more time playing video games spend less time on academics and have lower reading and writing scores.

Victoria L Dunckley, M. D., states:

  • “Neuroimaging research shows excessive screen time damages the brain. Taken together, [studies show] internet addiction is associated with structural and functional changes in brain regions involving emotional processing, executive attention, decision making, and cognitive control.”

–(Lin & Zhou et al, 2012)

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Study: Kids on “Screen-time Diet” are healthier and perform better in school – Scientific American

Research suggests parental monitoring of media consumption can have a lasting effect on a child’s development

…seven months later we got a huge surprise.  Children whose parents set more limits on the amount and content of media were now getting more sleep, had gained less weight (lowering their risk of obesity), were getting better grades in school, exhibited more helpful and cooperative social behaviors in school, and were less aggressive with their peers (as seen by the classroom teachers).

Douglas Gentile, SCIENTIFIC AMERICAN

Parents are in a much more powerful position than they realize.

Too Much Online Time

A new study of over 1300 3rd to 5th graders found that parental monitoring of children’s media has ripple effects that extend across several different areas of children’s lives out into the future.  Continue reading →

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11 Sites and Apps Kids Are Heading to After Facebook | Common Sense Media

11 Sites and Apps Kids Are Heading to … After Facebook

11 Apps kids are moving to from Facebook

Remember MySpace? Not so long ago, practically every teen in the world was on it –- and then many left for Facebook. Now, as Facebook’s popularity among teens is starting to wane, you might be wondering what the new “it” social network is. But the days of a one-stop shop for all social networking needs are over. Instead, teens are dividing their attention between an array of apps and tools that let them write, share, video chat, and even shop for the latest trends.

You don’t need to know the ins and outs of every app and site that’s “hot” right now (and frankly, if you did, they wouldn’t be trendy anymore). But knowing the basics — what they are, why they’re popular, and the problems that can crop up when they’re not used responsibly — can make the difference between a positive and negative experience for your kid.

11 Social Media Tools Parents Need to Know About Now

  • Twitter
  • Instagram
  • Snapchat
  • Tumblr
  • Google+
  • Vine
  • Wanelo
  • Kik Messenger
  • Ooovoo
  • Pheed
  • Ask.fm

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Upgrade Your Daughter’s Celebrity Role Models | Common Sense Media

Upgrade Your Daughter’s Celebrity Role Models

If your daughter’s love of Katy Perry, Ariana Grande, or Selena Gomez is inching dangerously close to idolizing superficiality, introduce her to female role models who have a bit more substance.

Sierra Filucci Executive Editor, Parenting Content | Mom of two

It probably wasn’t too long ago that your daughter’s pop culture obsession was trained squarely on Dora the Explorer. Now, she’s into Katy Perry, Ariana Grande, and Nicki Minaj. And though there’s nothing wrong with idolizing female celebrities — especially those who are clearly in charge of their careers — sometimes you wish she still pined for the backpack-carrying, animal-befriending cartoon, who’s so friendly and wholesome.

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Screen-Time Limits for Parents? | Common Sense Media

Our smartphone’s map helps us figure out where to drop off our kids for swim lessons; texting helps coordinate afterschool playdates; and there are so many great apps for both parents and kids — useful when you’re in a particularly slow line at the grocery store.

Still, if we parents are going to be smart about our smartphones, we do need to make a few rules for ourselves — just as we make rules for our kids on devices. Smartphone users tend to underestimate the time they spend staring at their phones instead of their kids. It might feel like 20 seconds, but really three minutes have passed — long enough for kids to wander off, get into trouble, or feel neglected.

A few suggestions for keeping our relationships with our phones more balanced:

  • No devices during mealtimes. And if a topic comes up that you would normally google, add it to a list to look up later.
  • Leave the game-playing (Words With Friends!) until after the kids are in bed.
  • No texting or talking on the phone while driving.
  • Put away the phone if the kids are swimming unattended or doing anything else potentially dangerous.
  • Designate “no-tech zones” in your home — and respect them!

via Screen-Time Limits for Parents? | Common Sense Media.

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Parents May Be Liable for What Their Kids Post on Facebook, Court Rules – Law Blog – WSJ

JACOB GERSHMAN

Bloomberg News

Parents can be held liable for what their kids post on Facebook, a Georgia appellate court ruled in a decision that lawyers said marked a legal precedent on the issue of parental responsibility over their children’s online activity.

The Georgia Court of Appeals ruled that the parents of a seventh-grade student may be negligent for failing to get their son to delete a fake Facebook profile that allegedly defamed a female classmate.

The trouble started in 2011 when, with the help of another student, the boy constructed a Facebook profile pretending to be the girl. He used a “Fat Face” app to make her look obese and posted profane and sexually explicit comments on the page depicting her as racist and promiscuous, according to court documents.

When the girl found out about it, she told her parents who then complained to the school’s principal. The school punished the boy with two days of in-school suspension and alerted his parents, who grounded him for a week.

But for the next 11 months, according to the appeals court opinion, the page stayed up. It wasn’t deleted until Facebook deactivated the account at the urging of the girl’s parents, the opinion said. The girl’s lawyer says the child’s parents didn’t immediately confront the boy’s parents because their school refused to identify the culprit for confidentiality reasons.

“Given that the false and offensive statements remained on display, and continued to reach readers, for an additional eleven months, we conclude that a jury could find that the [parents’] negligence proximately caused some part of the injury [the girl] sustained from [the boy’s] actions (and inactions),” wrote Judge John J. Ellington in the opinion, which was handed down Oct. 10. He was joined by two other judges on the panel.

via Parents May Be Liable for What Their Kids Post on Facebook, Court Rules – Law Blog – WSJ.

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What is Clash of Clans? Parent Reviews

Parents need to know …

that Clash of Clans is a strategic action game that pits players against both artificial-intelligence characters and real-world opponents. The app’s license agreement requires all players to be at least 13; teens 13 to 17 are supposed to have a guardian agree to the terms, but it’s on the honor system. There are frequent battles with explosions and the cries of defeated soldiers, but there is no graphic violence. The game’s core component is its multiplayer mode, wherein players can attack the villages of other players (and defend their own), but they don’t communicate with each other directly when these attacks occur — though there is a global chat functionality when players are in their own villages. Fortifying a village and building an army cost money, and the game uses in-app purchases to help players buy in-game currency to upgrade quicker

Parent Reviews

I think the chat feature of this game is horrible. The fact that anyone can jump into a closed game and use profanity, then as a parent you are unable to report those users, is a huge red flag. Even for teenagers the verbiage I witnessed may be inappropriate for them since there is no way to block unwanted users.

by MOMS WITH APPS

When my 5th grade daughter came home from school, mentioning that many boys in her class often talk about Clash of Clans, we decided to investigate why the app was so popular. Even though I’m hesitant about “addictive games“, I do feel it is important she has enough literacy to contribute to hot topics of conversation. So together, along with her younger sister, we discussed the pros and cons of video games, and brainstormed how we could incorporate Clash of Clans without disrupting our family’s priorities.

With our boundaries and expectations set, we sat together on the couch and downloaded the app. It’s been about three weeks since that day, and so far I have to say: WE LIKE IT!

Being a video-game-loving, ten-year-old son of mine brings with it a few privileges. For one thing, because dad is on the games-reviewer mailing list, you have ALL the latest games (some before release) and all the platforms to play them on. You also get to meet Bajo and Hex from Good Game and, not too long ago, got to go to the Halo 4 pre-release launch and play the game before any other kid in the country AND meet the main character, Master Chief, in person.

On the other hand, there’s very little that you can get away with. Is there any chance you can con dad into playing an age-inappropriate game? Buckley’s chance. Can you playCall of Duty because all of your friends are playing it? Hell no! And not just because I’m busy playing it myself.

But now Mr 10 and I are in a strange place.

We’ve been playing a seemingly-inoffensive “Real Time Strategy” game lately called, Clash of the Clans. It’s his game but when he’s not around I take over. The game has clans where the kids form teams and this brings with it clan chat and messages. One morning I turned on the iPad and saw this from someone in the same grade….

It’s the social media component of Clash — a private messaging board, essentially, where clan members can talk to one another — that presents a troublesome issue if you’re the parent of an 8-year-old like my son, Ichiro. I may be a negligent-enough parent to let my kid commandeer the iPad so he can murder little cartoon archers who sigh mournfully when they expire, but I wasn’t going to let him talk to strangers without supervision. And so it was decided that I would build a village and join the game, too.

Eventually, Ichi landed us in a clan called Loyalty, whose 40-odd members were scattered around the globe. Before dinner, I might donate a few battle-ready troops to a clan member in Australia who was just then going off to work, and the next morning some teenager in Abu Dhabi might do the same for me.

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~ Grade Parents • Cyber-Safety Meeting • ~ ~ at 4:30 • ~ Grade Classroom

  • ~ Grade Parents Cyber-Safety Meeting • ~, ~ ~ at 4:30

Digital Footprint and Reputation-Common Sense Media …  Cyber Bullying- Common Sense Media

Dear ~ Grade Parents & Guardians:

We are holding a CyberSafety Meeting tonight after the ~ Grade Orientation to update all ~ grade parents on the problems some families are experiencing with cyber-safety issues on multi-player game sites… and preview Cyber-safety and Cyber-bullying problems we’ve seen in the past with older students. (It often feels like they add a social media or gaming site every week and there is no way the school can keep up without parent help).

Self-Image and Identity-Common Sense Media  …  Online Relationships & Communication-Common Sense Media

The ~ Graders have been doing great work in reading, math, history, choir, music, science, and across the 8 Core Learning Strands; we’d like to discuss ways our families can work together to help ensure that after-school forces don’t jeopardize our students’ academic and social success.

Attendance at a CyberSafety meeting will be part of the mandatory Orientation Process for all families who are returning for the 2015-2016 school year. Please attend Common Sense Media Sign-Up Logotonight (we would like to meet with all parents before summer to put in place possible solutions; the program includes information on the latest games and a Common Sense Social Media program for parents).

Common Sense Media-TV is a Habit-Make it a Good Habit

  1. Common Sense Media Video: TV is a Habit, Make it a Good One!
  2. Computers are now TVs (Hulu.com, ABC.com, etc.)

Thank you and we hope to see you this afternoon after the 3rd Grade Orientation.
Regards,

Tom Donahue
Executive Director
Old Town Academy K-8 Charter School

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Excerpt from OTA Internet Ethics Policy:

The School understands that a Cyber Safety policy will not be successful without the support of parents in the home. Keeping our children safe, preventing online bullying, and creating a safe learning environment in school is the responsibility of both teachers and parents and guardians. We therefore will ask every OTA family…. Continue reading →

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What is Minecraft? Can 100 Million Users be wrong? Probably

The Game That Conquered the World – James Parker  

  • Start with the name: Minecraft (not mindcraft): first you mine, for materials, then you craft, build.

What is the appeal of Minecraft? It’s the limitless creation of one’s own reality.

For lack of anything better to do, I tear up a vegetable patch. Thrash, thrash, goes my club of a right arm: green matter flies, satisfyingly. With a pop! a large carrot appears in my hand––so now I’m armed. I mount tiers of grass and stone, and find myself in some kind of settlement, a jigsaw of low wooden buildings. I hear a sound—hawnh! … hawnh!—a muttered, skeptical little half honk, and turn to locate its source. A human figure is pottering toward me in apparent curiosity. Hawnh! I hit him with my carrot. He recoils—hawnh!—his entire body flashing red as if at the violation of some exquisite social instinct. Ashamed, I hit him again. Then I move to the left, fall into a small pond, and drown. It’s my first day in Minecraft.

Some context here: I am a 46-year-old man, Continue reading →

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Cyberbullying on Minecraft

Bullying on Minecraft

While being pushed around, beat up, isolated or verbally abused on the playground are more obvious acts of bullying, technology has given bullies a whole new means for terrorizing others — sometimes even anonymously.

MULTIPLAYER GAMES ARE PUTTING KIDS AT RISK

While online games like Minecraft are often enjoyed without issue, find out how the ability to interact with other players your child may not know could leave him or her a victim of cyberbullying on Minecraft and other multiplayer games.

How kids are cyberbullied on multiplayer games

When it comes to multiplayer games, cyberbullying can take many forms — most commonly referred to as griefing. According to Wikipedia, “A griefer is a player in a multiplayer video game who deliberately irritates and harasses other players within the game, using aspects of the game in unintended ways… including cursing, cheating, stealing and unreasonable killing.” Other common forms of online bullying can include kicking other players off the server and intentionally trying to anger or upset other players for their own enjoyment — also known as trolling — during multiplayer games.”Online bullying can include kicking other players off the server and intentionally trying to anger or upset other players.”

“In our case, my son had a server and spent months building things — castles, bridges, underwater cities and buildings in the sky,” explains Mark Cheverton, author of Invasion of the Overworld: A Minecraft Novel. “Some other player was able to get the IP address to my son’s server and when the griefers came onto his server they used their software hacks to get past the security and proceeded to destroy everything on his server. They then posted the video on their YouTube channel which made it even worse.” But, how much harm does this form of virtual bullying really do to kids?

Read more at:  Cyberbullying on Minecraft.

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